Young People

Are you a young person who is concerned about your own sexual thoughts or behaviours?  

As a young person, it’s common to become more aware of your body, relationships, and feelings, including sexual thoughts. 

Sometimes people have thoughts or feelings that surprise or confuse them. This can even be things they don’t agree with or feel uncomfortable about. You might have sexual thoughts about someone you don’t actually like, someone you shouldn’t be thinking about, or someone much younger  

Experiencing these thoughts does not define who you are. If sexual thoughts or urges are concerning, happening a lot, feel upsetting, or start getting in the way of everyday life, it’s okay to ask for help. We can’t always control our thoughts, feelings, or physical reactions but we can control our behaviour.  

If you’re feeling worried about your behaviour, reaching out is an important first step

What’s ok? Australia

Jesuit Social Services will soon launch the new What’s ok? Australia website, an early intervention initiative offering free, safe and anonymous support for young people and those supporting them who are concerned about sexual thoughts or behaviour, with a focus on preventing harm. 

The website offers clear and honest information for: 

• Young people who are worried about their own or someone else’s sexual thoughts and behaviour.   
• Young people who have questions and curiosities about healthy relationships and sexuality,   
• Young people who want to recognise and respond to potential dangers and risks of exploitation.  

If you are worried that someone might be hurting you, pressuring you, or asking you to do sexual things that do not feel right, it is important to know that this is not your fault and help is available. You have the right to feel safe and respected. If something feels uncomfortable, confusing, or scary, even online, it is okay to tell someone you trust, such as a parent, carer, teacher, school counsellor, or another safe adult.  

There are also other helplines specifically for children and young people that you may find helpful. Since everyone’s situation is different, you can look at the options below and choose the one that feels right for you.